Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Week 3 ( She titled this email: Cheese is Soo Good) (Isn't She Funny)

FAMILY!!!

I have so much to tell you but, as Sandra already has noticed t's getting late here.  We only have a few minutes. 

I'm sure you feel much anticipation about this last week.  So, I'll begin at the end and go backwards.  DObPE?    DObPE!   Today, we moved into our new apartment!  Finally.  We are own are own in our area right next to a CUpePMaPKeT!  It's not wal-mart, but it meets our needs.  Ukrainians have style.  Did I tell you that yet?  We have a darling apartment!  Most apartments are pretty ugly outside (Remember they were all built during the Soviet Union but, some major remodeling is going on in this country!  Including moral remodeling [some changes haven't been so good] and that is why we are here).  We are all moved and unpacked.  We have lots of wonderful Ukrainian groceries like RIDICULOUSLY AMAZING CHEESE and XlIb (bread) and MOlOKO (Milk).  They have the best cereal here.  I feel right at home.  Well, I just don't know half of the conversations around me or the ingredients in the food I'm eating and I cannot count my calories any more - but I'm getting used to that too.  

My companion was sick this morning.  We fasted yesterday.  So I called our doctor (Elder Goth from Canada) and he said she would be okay in a couple of hours.  She rested and I got to perform some fun service like laundry and unpacking!  I hope I don't ever get sick.  
We had another baptism on Saturday.  (I returned to KuiB (by a nighttime train ride) and made it back by 7:30 for a meeting, then off to work again).  I love my companion.  I really missed her and KuiB.  Don't get me wrong, Lyiv is Heaven.  It's the gorgeous city of my dreams.  Our apartment was pretty much a palace and someone got really creative in the corridor.  There were murals everywhere!  It was a wonderful branch. There were 2 branches and they were so much fun to work with.  They are a missionary branch!  I met some amazing members, but not too much work was done.  I'm so glad to get busy here.  To get started.  To build this ward that neighbors the construction of the most glorious building in Eastern Europe.  We work with the office elders.  These two elders are fabulous.  I'm sorry they are stuck in the office but, because they are there we have the best flyers and the best handouts.  We have everything we need.  We are planning some wonderful missionary activities for the ward. 
Did I tell you the mission goal?  We are going to double the number of baptisms!  I'm super excited about the work here.  I'm super excited about the people we are working with.  I'm learning slowly that there is no secret to missionary work.  There is no magic trick and no 7 steps to success.
The key is the Savior.  He is the "WAY"  the "More Excellent Way."  I'm going to try to focus my mission like His mission.  He didn't go crazy trying to tell everyone to "REPENT AND BE BAPTIZED"  (sometimes it's quite tempting, fortunately I can say that and no one understands me...)  But, He labored in love and service.  

Well.  I'm sorry that today was a crazy day for us and we didn't have much time to e-mail.  I love you!

I am so thankful for the simplicity of the Gospel.  I know that God loves us.  We are all brothers and sisters.  We are all unique.  So, I'm trying to find better approaches and open the hearts to this important message.

I still have to e-mail Pres. Steinagel...so...tata for now!

LOVE LOVE LOVE!

CECTPA MURPHY!!

(I signed a lease today...and then the toilet stopped working!)

P.S. I plan on sending you some awesome UK stuff but, I have no time today so you might not get it for your birthdays.  I love you both!

Thanks for the package, $40 that's a little outrageous!  Sorry.  I hope the Lord blesses you lots!  Tons...maybe in babies!!!

The toilet doesn't like me, well I don't know what caused it to break.  Oh, we bought scented Toilet Paper today, crazy huh.  They have the worst TP and the best.  I'd rather go cheap but, why not have the experience once. So we spent like 260 gruven(?) on groceries today but, I think it's only like $30.  I don't quite understand the exchange rate quite yet.

The work is sometimes frustrating but. I'm trying to get over that.  What are some tips on having more fun and not being so serious.  Most of the time I'm happy but, I'm just a little to stiff...you know.

The greatest of love to Auntie Diane!  I received a letter from her and g-ma already!  Sweeties!

Oh something I forgot...the Assistants are also in our area but, because they are assistants they don't have much time for the standard missionary work.  So we are going to be working with their branch too.  So, Sister Movchanok and I are going to be super busy and working hard strengthening the members here.  We met with the branch president and his cute little family yesterday night.  I'm excited for the challenge.  I know the Lord has blessed me so much.  The members are really impressed with my language after only 3 weeks but, there is still so much work to be done.  I'm understanding more, well I assume I'm understanding, because I know maybe 70% of the words...

Funny story we were handing out materials (copies of the "Book of Mormon" free pictures, liahonas, church stuff, and of course free English lessons (In lviv) and I was talking with someone.  I thought he was talking about a man in the apartments close by who wanted to learn and get baptized, and of course I wanted to meet him.  However, He wanted me to marry a nice Ukrainian boy.  Although, that's great, I'm a missionary.  So,  I'll just let that appointment fall through for a few years or so.  The gospel is what brings true happiness.  I know that.  I know how important this time is and I'm trying to be devoted, dedicated, and strong.  I know that I need to serve with all my heart, might, mind and strength.  So, on that note,  I'm going to go.

We have some exciting things to get ready for!

LOVE YOU FOREVER...because families are eternal.

Love,

your sometimes not so very humble, not so very diligent, and certainly not perfect missionary Sister Murphy...
But, I have a perfect hope in the Atonement of Christ and I love my Savior.  Every day I will try to be better, live more worthy and repent and change for the better.

CECTPA  Murphy.

Week 2

Hello - adorable wonderful family!

Are you ready for this?

I don't think you are going to believe it....

So, be prepared to be overwhelmed...and then laugh...

So, I've been here for, well this is my second week.  We got a call on Wednesday, well let me start out by saying, remember my companion lived in Italy.  Italians have very strict visa permits for Ukrainians.   She is Ukranian.  Because she has been serving, she was not able to go to Italy to renew her permit of stay.  She didn't want to distract from the work so she didn't worry about it.  However, that means that after her mission she doesn't have a place to live.  Meanwhile, another sister had to go home.  Her mother has cancer and was going to have a major surgery.   Wed. we got a call saying: be prepared to transfer - we are going to see what we can work out.  We thought: interesting, Wonder when that will happen...  Thursday we get a call:  Tomorrow, Sister Murphy you are going to L'viv for a week!  Sister Movchanok - you will leave on Monday to go to Italy so you can renew your permit of stay.  Amazing.  So, on Friday, I met my new companion - Sister Belastky, who is also Ukranian.  We are in L'viv for the week.  It's been great.  L'viv is a beautiful city in the west of Ukraine AND GUESS WHAT.  Everyone...mostly everyone...speaks Ukrainian!  It's so beautiful.  I feel extremely blessed to be here, serving with another amazing sister.  The best news.  We had a baptism!  Youlia.  She is a 16 year old girl - beautiful and has a great faith and an amazing testimony.  She lives at home in a not so good family situation.  It's interesting.  She is the only one supporting her family and not one of them supports her decision to be baptized.  The branches here are full of life and are ready to get full of people!
But, I miss the people in Kyiv.  We found 3 amazing people last week.  (Remeber we had to start from zero.)

The first lady is Cveta - 29.  She wanted us to help her with English.  She speaks amazing English and she was really excited to speak with a native.  So we meet with her twice a week.  She wants to know more about us of course.  She is so curious and super smart.  She has kept all of the commitments we have given her.  We have also been teaching her in English...CRAZY?  Yes.  But, we, Sister Movchanok and I both feel that she will only progress and learn the importance of the message by teaching her in Ukrainian.
Another girl is Marina.  She is probably 23.  She has a beautiful little boy and a husband.  She has been searching for truth for a while.
Another family, in their 40s, has been coming to church for a while.  But, something is keeping them from meeting with the missionaries.  Fortunately, we are sisters - we are going to work to prepare them for baptism.

Well, I love life.  It's amazing how much I need to improve.  It's amazing that the Lord is showing me how I can be a good and effective missionary.  It is certainly difficult here.  But, as I learn the culture and the language that will only add more power to my abilities.  Can you believe how much the Lord helps us.  I've only been studying for 3 months. CRAZY.  I know I have a loving Heavenly Father.  He wants to bless His children and when we pray and work hard he will bless us.  What a blessing it is to be here now - helping to build up the kingdom.  Pres. Steinagel said the temple will be ready in a year.  Today, they finished putting on the third layer of granite, signifying the building up of zion.  We are here to help these people receive their temple blessing from their Heavenly Father.  I am thankful to serve in this beautiful country among these beautiful people.  Seriously, this country is fashionable, oh and the food.  AMAZING!  Well, I don't have much time.

Preach My Gospel is the way to go.  I love you.  I think you are the best!  Thank you for your happy e-mails.  They make me smile....

No one is perfect.  I keep having to remember that one talk in conference.  A lady wanted her husband to be better, so she said "Why can't you be more like Abraham?" and he replied, "Then you need to be more like Sarah.  So, I think as long as I do what I can to be better others will work on improving as well.  I've been suprised a few times by fellow missionaries.  But, life goes on, missionary work goes on.  I love you!  

I want to see a picture of your new puppy.  I can get pictures so, someone needs to show you how to do that.  It's kind of difficult.  I had a hard time trying to send sandra some today.  Hopefully she gets them and you can see them.  What perfect weather.  It's crazy hot here!   Well, it was in Kyiv.  L'viv is heaven!  Sometimes it just rains. Someone indefinitely borrowed my umbrella at the MTC so, I'm going to be looking for a nice Ukranian umbrella.
Oh! I forgot the word for umbrella, I should go look that one up again.
I never get tired of talking because unfortunatley, I don't talk enough.  I have a lot I still need to learn.  But, I'm trying to be patient and rely on the Lord. We walk everywhere, or take public transportation.  All Ukrainians do it.  We pack into these little bus like things.  It's great, especially on hot summer days!  Although, those who can afford it have cars, I was surprised at how many american cars are here. The history is so neat here.  

Sandra could you send me a few hair ties in a letter or something.
Um...other suggestions:  hand wipes...these marchutkas and metros...crowed with people.  I feel so dirty....
and maybe easy to bake brownies or cake mixes.  I don't want to waste time baking but, it's fun to bring stuff to the members.  I don't think I need anything else.  Seriosly, I am fine, great, excellent, fabulous.  (I'm sorry about all of the adjectives and adverbs...apparently the Ukrainian language isn't to frivolous with their words)  The Lord really does protect his Servants.  I love Him.  I'm still working on opening my mouth.  Being brave and being bold.  But, I need to also show my love and have fun with these people, beautiful children of God!   All right.  I'm going to go buy some yummy Ukranian fruit and veggies.

Can you believe it...I'm in L'viv.  It is paradise for Ukranian speaking missionaries.  AND I get one week of it!  Well, time's up.

You are the best!

Nakrishe!

LOVE YOU FOREVER!!

Sister Murphy!

Monday, July 20, 2009

 
Amy's last night with Sister Howell, her companion in America.
She already got to go to a baptism in Ukraine.  Her new companion is on the left and the elders in her district are in the back.

This is the backyard of her new apartment in Kyiv.


Saturday, July 18, 2009

First e-mail from Ukraine

Friends!
Thank you for your letter.  I have been thinking: Wow, I'm a missionary?  NO WAY?  Seriously, when did that happen?  It's even more amazing now that I am here in Ukraine, surrounded by the people I have been called to serve.
What I'm in Ukraine...see...it's still happening.  CRAZY!  Can you imagine?  Well, you probably cannot unless you've been to Ukraine.  I'll try to set the scene for you.  By now, you've heard about our crazy night in New York.  I wasn't very happy.  But, I've made a transfer goal to be happy with every circumstance the Lord gives me, or I cause myself, or maybe even those unavoidable events that are "thrust upon us."  (what am I quoting there...I'm sorry if it's "Babylon")  So, I believe 100% we can find the good and even the better in every circumstance.  For example, as we waited in the airport the Next day I met a beautiful girl and her sister who just enjoyed talking to us.  She was extremely happy to show me pictures of her family and her other sister who was just married.  Speaking of pictures, can you send me a few pictures; maybe of us at your wedding, a few taken in Arkansas and Tahoe, and a few from school friends and family.  It's a great way to start lessons (I learned this from my wonderful companion) (oh and while you are at it can you also send one of the temple).  THANKS!  So, it's summer here.  It's hot and humid and I LOVE IT!  I hope you all know how weird I am - and if you need proof:  I LOVE TO SWEAT!  There is no lack of it here!  I love public transportation.  Ukrainians are amazing, wonderful, and I cannot understand them.  I'll get to that in a second.  First - public transportation.  It consists of little yellow boxes with wheels filled to the max with hot sweaty people.  You cannot beat it!  I'm excited for more embarrassing stories to happen but thus far include face planting into some man's harry chest, or tripping, or not balancing through the sudden random stops.  I'm clumsy.
So far I've been not to forward.  I think I've been holding myself back.  I'll get to that in a second too.

Next, my companion:  We didn't get to catch up on sleep.  I'm totally okay with that, who needs sleep?  (Although I have been 99% converted to the 8 hour theory, only because our brain works harder during the night.  I need my brain to work for me right now.)  So, we woke up the next night and had zone conference.  OH you don't even know which zone i'm in.   Well at this point I also didn't know, we were just all going to attend our first zone conf. together.  So, we go to the stake center (with the temple right next door) and meet other missionaries and more importantly my companion.  She is amazing.  We are twins!  (Well, people keep asking us if we are, and yesterday we both wore orange!)  I am serving in Kiev.  In the best area with the best ward, right next to the temple.  Unfortunately, she is also new to the area, so we don't have an apartment yet.  We are staying with the Bairds (senior missionaries who work in the office)  I'm not complaining.  They are wonderful and they have a beautiful apartment, it's just so far away. 
The only other problem I  have...Everyone speaks Russian.  A little hindrance to my study of the Ukrainian language.  WHICH is WHY:
Today, I've made a goal to be courageous.  I absolutely love it here.  I love the people, my companion, the humidity, heat, and sporadic rainstorms. I love walking forever to knock on a door that no one answers and I even love crowed marshutkas.  (How do you spell that?)  (Editor's note: I think she is referring to public transportation.)  But, I do not like that I cannot understand people.  So, I'm going to talk to everyone.  (That sounds scary to me, but it will help me with the language.)  That's what I imagined missionary work to be anyway - talking to everyone.  And I suppose, even in a language I understand, there is still miscommunication and interpretation.
So, I guess that is all you need to know.  I'm doing great.  I just need courage to start talking to people and then I'll be doing 10000 times better!

I hope you have a great day!  I know I can too.  It's all about my attitude, and I'm working on developing courage!

Okay now my companion, CECTPA MOVCHANYOK, was born in Ukraine.  Her mother was baptized when she was 13 and it took her 2 years to understand the truthfulness of the gospel.  Then her mother, sister and she moved to Italy.  So, I have a Ukrainian/Italian companion who is fluent in 4 languages.  Unfortunately English is one of them.  I wish I was forced to speak more Ukrainian.

But, she is great.  She loves to work and knows how to do it.  She is getting right to work in this area and dragging me along.  Fortunately, although I don't understand a thing that is happening, people should be able to understand me when I speak and respect me a little bit more b/c I'm speaking their national language.  Now, I just have to speak more.  Pray for me.  I know that is what I have to do to start understanding people, now I just have to do it.

Okay, now about our mission.  I TESTIFY and I KNOW that I am serving in the best mission in the world.  I know that this is true.  This is the greatest mission.  Right now.  We are raising the standard to these people.  Satan is working here like crazy, trying to destroy these people and filling them with misconceptions.  Unfortunately, they are used to that, communism and corrupt beliefs are all over the country.  But, we are going to baptize and teach!  During our Zone Conference Pres. Steinagel released a new goal to us.  We are going to double the baptisms as a mission.  We are doubling are faith and doubling are prayers--everything we can to bring the people the gospel.  I am consecrating my life to the Lord so. I'm going to be busy.  (I have a lot of work to do).  But, mostly it's going to be a challenge to really give up everything.  So, on that note, I should go get started!  I love you!!!  You are the best family in the world.  I know that's true.  I know that our reunion will be 200 trillion times better the harder I work here and the more focus I have here.  So encourage me.  Love you lots!!
 
p.s. yes I was discouraged at church, I understood maybe 10% of what was said.  It was sad.  Then we sat in a lesson and I understood, oh, I don't even know if I was trying.  It's all in Russian.  People don't know Ukrainian that well.  So, I'm going to learn Russian!

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Important Instructions on sending Amy Letters: PLEASE READ!

MAIL & PACKAGES FROM HOME

 Instructions on how to send mail to Ukraine Kyiv Missionaries


Very Important— Do Not Put The Words  Ukraine Kyiv Mission” on PACKAGES.  If you put “Ukraine Kyiv Mission” as part of the address, they think it is coming to a business and customs charges are so high that the package will be returned to you.   (Exception:  Pouch Mail – See Below)

 

When you mail Packages – KEEP THEM SMALL.  Along with all their own bags and books, missionaries must often carry the packages and letters on public transportation and then on foot to other missionaries, many who live in outlying areas.  It is better to send two small packages rather than one large one.  Put your Missionary’s first and last name on the package.

Do not require your missionary’s signature in order to pick up the package.

We find the U.S. Mail flat rate box or large padded envelopes work the best for packages.

Please be aware that packages sent through U.S. Mail to the addresses below should reflect a customs value of less than $99 – a higher value will be charged at least $100 customs fee.  Your missionary will have to pay this fee to obtain the package.  The Mission Office does not pay custom fees.  Please remember any package sent across U.S. borders is subject to possible opening and inspection by Customs.  When declaring items, be general and simple.  Examples:  “supplies,” “personal items” and “household items.”  You may be asked to list the items included—if so, list everything.  Do NOT bother to insure, as you could never collect over here.  Packages usually take several weeks to arrive.

We do not recommend Federal Express or DHL or other express services. 

 

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Use this address for ALL LETTERS AND PACKAGES :   

AMY MURPHY

vul. Yabluneva 1

s. Sofiivska Borshahivka

Kyevo-Svyatoshinskiy rayon

Kyivska oblast  08131

UKRAINE        

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POUCH  MAIL: 

The Church provides pouch mail service to countries where other mail service may not be reliable.  Each country regulates this service differently, and the Church must comply w/ these regulations in order to avoid finds and cessation of this service.  

Only postcards or letters that are single sheet, folded into 3 panels, and taped at the top only may be sent through the pouch service. (DETAILED INSTRUCTIONS BELOW)

Any mail/letters sent from home through the Church Pouch to your missionary must be a single sheet of  copy paper (notebook paper is too flimsy) folded in thirds with the open section up where the stamp is.  You can only use one sheet of paper.  Tape the open end at the top with one or two small pieces of tape.  Stamp and address as follows:  

The missionary’s name

Ukraine Kyiv Mission

P.O. Box 30150

Salt Lake City, UT  84130-0150.  

(For Pouch Mail, using the name of the Mission is very important as all the missions have the same P.O. Box in Salt Lake City.)

(Please include your name & address in the top left corner.)

Instructions for making a 3-panel fold (basically it's like how you'd fold a business letter but if you are still confused read on):

  1. Lay the blank side of the letter (single sheet) facing down w/ the writing facing you.
  2. Fold the top of the letter about 1/3 of the way down & crease.
  3. Fold the bottom of the letter to the top of the first fold and crease.
  4. Use two pieces of tape or two sticker tabs on the top to secure it, not more than once inch from each side, but do not seal the ends.
  5. Do not include any other items w/in the letter.
  6. In the top left corner, write your name & address.
  7. Affix a stamp in the top right corner.
  8. In the middle, write the following:
Sister Amy Murphy
Ukraine Kyiv Mission
P.O. Box 30150
SLC, UT 84130-0150


Some families use “DearElder.com”  (A free service which uses the Pouch Mail.) (see side bar for instructions or email Sandy)

Email from Amy's Mission President

Greetings from Kyiv Ukraine!  Your wonderful missionary arrived here safe and sound after a plane delay.  After we picked up the Elders and Sisters we visited the St. Vladmir Statue.  Very near this site Elder Boyd K. Packer dedicated the land of Ukraine to the preaching of the gospel of Jesus Christ on 12 September 1991.  (This happens to be Amy's mother's birthday!!!)

We also visited downtown Kyiv, ate at a Ukrainian Buffet and after orientation ate dinner with the new missionaries at the mission home.  Tomorrow is Zone Conference(a meeting for all the missionaries in the Mission), then your missionary will be on her way to her new area.  Sister Murphy will be serving with Sister Movchanyuk in Borshahivsky near the site of the new temple which is being constructed..

There is a letter from your missionary on its way to you to be sent Friday in the POUCH mail.  However, it may not reach you for about two weeks.

If you have any questions or concerns, please contact us at this Pouch address.

Ukraine Kiev Mission

P.O. Box 30150

Salt Lake City UT 84130


Sincerely,

President Lane O. Steinagel and Sister Jennefer Steinagel

Amy is in Ukraine!



This was taken in Kyiv, Ukraine at the site for the LDS Temple.  You can see the temple in the background.  It is scheduled to be completed towards the end of 2010 but any actual dates have not been announced by the church. If you'd like to learn more about LDS temples I'd recommend this great video by our church: 
Click HERE
The couple in the picture with her is the Ukraine Kiev Mission President Lane Orin Steinagel, 47 and his wife Jennefer Slade Steinagel.  They both grew up in Sacramento but reside in Provo, Utah and have voluntarily agreed to serve in Ukraine for 3 years guiding and teaching the missionaries w/o monetary compensation.

This is a digital rendering of what the temple will look like when completed.  It is beautiful!

According to LDSChurchTemples.com, "Though only recently introduced in 1991, the Church has grown steadily in this eastern European nation. At 8,500 members strong, the Church in Ukraine reached a milestone on May 30, 2004, when Elder Russell M. Nelson of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles of organized the first stake (Our church is organized into regional units across the world called stakes and in each stake is broken down into wards) of seven wards in Kyiv. Elder Nelson blessed members to love their neighbors as Christ that many more stakes might be organized. He also encouraged them in their family history work in preparation for the temple.3

During a trip to Europe in 2002 that included the rededication of the Freiberg Germany Temple and dedication of The Hague Netherlands Temple, President Gordon B. Hinckley visited with the Ukrainian saints. 

The announcement of the temple came just a week prior to the dedication of Ukraine's first meetinghouse in Donetsk on June 28, 1998.5



3. Shaun D. Stahle, "Kiev members revere historic moment," Church News 5 Jun. 2004: 6.
5. "A temple in Ukraine," Church News 8 Aug. 1998: 3.


This is another picture of the whole group who came from America w/ Amy.  Her companion, Sister Howell is on the right.  They both have been placed with other sisters who have been serving for a longer period of time and can provide more intensive language training and advice on sharing the message of the Savior with the Ukrainian people.  

Sister Murphy will be serving with Sister Movchanyuk in Borshahivsky near the site of the new temple which is being constructed.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

June 23: (Sorry it's late)

йцуккенгшщзхїфівапролджєячсмитьбю.
добре ден!  -   ранок!!!
я люблю вас!
сьогодні!
Sorry, don't mind that if you can even read it.  I wanted to use the cyrillic keyboard.

Good Morning!  I love you!  and Today!

So, yesterday we had the language countdown.  I told Sandra what my last word was but, it's quite immature for a missionary and I'd rather have you think I'm respectable!  I didn't think of it, it just slipped.  I had really decided to let my last words of english not be english at all.  I had said "Now" in Ukrainian and "ready!"  and then, we had 3-2- and out it came.  But, thats okay.  CTO (100) % Ukrainian for the next few weeks and my district is CTO(100)% dedicated.  We have decided to be the best district at speaking strictly in Ukrainian.  I'm also working on making my dreams in Ukrainian, but those are a little bit harder to control.  Maybe one day soon.  I'm not perfect.  I let the word stomach slip during breakfast.  Sometimes I don't think as fast as I speak (which is crazy because I'm already speaking Ukrainian very POVILHO (slowly).)

Well, Happy Father's Day!  The days kind of creep up on us here, so I'm sorry I wasn't better prepared.  I love you all and I'm thankful for all that you do!  Speaking of creeping days.  We have 2 weeks left here in the safety of our "school"  --  CRAZY.

Well, I already don't have much time left.  I've talked a little bit about my district.  I love how much we support each other.  I really feel unified.  It's not that difficult with only 5 missionaries and 2 companionships, so I cannot compare our district to the other districts.  I'm so luck though, and I just love my companion!
So, now I'll tell you about our teachers:
Sis. GeorGeivia (the most difficult name to pronounce, and the G's are actually almost like h's)
She is from Ukraine!  Her birthday was yesterday!  She is probably 29.  She is a convert to the church and has been a member for about 10 years.  She also served a mission in Kyiv and is amazing.  She is very hard on us BUT, I LOVE IT!  She is bold, strong, and wants the best missionaries.  She has been training all Ukrainian speaking missionaries and even Russian missionaries who serve in the Kyiv mission for 2.5 years.  She really is the best teacher here (we are told that by almost every supervisor and branch leader).  She gets results in obedience and language learning.  I love her!   
Oh no, time is up.  
The two other teachers are male and they served in Kyiv as well.  They are Americans and are very funny, but very supportive and amazing!  They tone it down a bit when we feel overwhelmed and frustrated.  One of them is our tutor so, we don't see him as much but, he helps us more on our needs.  He just got engaged.   Well, there was a whole lot more I wanted to tell you!   I love you all.

Things are going great here, only one more week.

Lots of Love,

CECTPA MURPHY

June 30: Amy's final week in the MTC

Well,

What a week...filled with all kinds of adventures.  I hope I have time and abilities (really fast typing skills) to tell them all to you!

I'll start with the most awesome news.  We had an amazing week BECAUSE it was mission President training.  Maybe a 100 newly called mission presidents and their wives were here for training and the MTC loves them. The MTC goes all out for them, or maybe they go all out because the teachers of the MTC presidents are the Apostles and Prophets.  So, it was just amazing knowing that although we couldn't see them, President Monson and the other Brethren were walking around somewhere.  Then, on Friday night we had an amazing devotional.  SO amazing that Sister Howell and I had to sing in the choir so we could get the best seats.  We weren't sure who would speak to us but, rumors were Elder J.R. Holland.  We waited patiently.  
This is what happens at devotionals:  We are supposed to be seated at least 15 mintues early (and usually it's a battle to find enough seats so we keep pushing up the arrival time).   At 6:45 everyone is seated (which means at least 1,000 missionaries)  and we sing.  We always have an amazing organist and it's just beautiful.  During the singing our guests arrive and take their seats on the stand.  First walks in Elder L. Tom Perry!  (He is the Chair of the Apostle's Committee on missionaries.)  He is adorable.  Next, Elder Neil Anderson and Elder Quinton L. Cook walk in together, followed by Elder Dallin H. Oaks, Elder Christofferson and Elder Bednar!!!  The last Apostle to walk in was our amazing motivating speaker - Elder Holland.  Can you imagine how amazing this meeting was?  
He talked about the Holy Ghost and teaching!  Believe me when I tell you I am not a very good teacher and I will be teaching the most important lessons anyone will ever receive in their lives.  It is my responsibilty to use effective questions, be enthusiastic, and help them realize how improtant the Gospel is to them.  I've realized I haven't been very effective at that.  Why is this church so important?  Why does it matter that there are living prophets on the Earth?   What does it mean when I say Joseph Smith saw God and Jesus Christ? 

There are hunderds of answers to these questions-personal, vague or standard.  We all have a responsiblity when we teach someone about the Gospel to be bold.  I'm working on developing more love for everyone - Christlike love.  He of course wants all of God's children to return to Him.  Why else would He suffer and sacrifice His life in humility.  He did it for every single person I meet.  We all can help others return to Him.  We are dealing with the Salvation of God's children.  I cannot make mistakes, but I do and HE loves me still!

Another tangent: Will said in a letter:  "I'm glad you are getting a handle on the language..."   I need to answer that.  I have confidence that the Lord will help me with what I do not know and what I need.  I'm working hard and progressing a lot (not because of what I'm doing only because I will be teaching HIS children).  But, I know I have a WHOLE lot of work to do.  Pray that I will have an amazing trainer, MAYBE A NATIVE!!!  Well, I know the Lord will give me what I need.  I know that I have to be diligent and have faith.  What an opportunity!  I'm serving Christ - I am a representative of Christ.  When I read that I think, No way.  I'm not worthy to do that.  But, who is?  No one.  Yet, He needs us.  So, we have to put our Hearts, Might, Mind and Strength into serving the Lord!

I love every single day, even the days when my district goes crazy!  (We do...)
I especially love my teachers (Sister G.)
She is really stressing over us.  I'm a little worried about her health.

I love the missionaries I serve with, especially my companion!  I'm going to miss her - 3 months and then split. 

O goodness, time flies!!!  Like what I'll be doing Tuesday morning at 8:35 am.  I'm leaving!  It's probably a 2-day flight.  We go to NY, Austria, then Kiev.

Tell andrew I said Hi.

Tell, the ward I'm sorry I haven't been the greatest at writing!

It's crazy busy.

TELL EVERYONE I LOVE THEM!

I LOVE YOU!

Can you believe I'm going to Ukraine?

I'm a missionary?

WOW!

Love

Cectpa Murphy

p.s.  I think about you a WHOLE lot more.  I just cannot write you!

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Random Short Spurts to Family...ENJOY!

Grandma & Grandpa,

What a wonderful e-mail from you!  DUBNO, I love you!  (I'm not going to tell you what DUBNO means and I doubt you'll be able to translate.  I'll give you a hint: it's a WEIRD word!)  Your the best!  HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!   I think I missed it.  Days are all flying together.  I don't even know what day I'm on until we plan at night.  Life is so wonderful here!  I want a garden.  You need to teach me all your tricks.  Funny story.  So the MTC and the temple of course have beautiful grounds.  Every day they have people working on them changing flowers or nurturing trees.  It's amazing  AND It's lovely.  I don't know that much about flowers or trees but, you have taught me a lot more than most other missionaries here.  (APBiology helped a little bit too.)  When we walk around studying I can identify the trees and flowers and my district looks at me like I'm some crazy nature lover.  (I totally am).  
Primary is the best.  I miss kids.  Every time we are on the field working out, running, or walking I stop to say hi to the kids walking to their friends or something.  The best.   On Sundays there are always families taking pictures at the temple too or families in the branch presidencies, the cutest kids, dressed in their little suits and stuff.  I like seeing them!
I love you!
Have lots of fun with Joyce and Kevin.  Tell them how wonderful they are and of course I love them too!  (ZVIDhANO)
DObPE DeHb!
My companion and I are being really productive today.
Have I told you how amazing my companion is.  My biggest fear (Will helped funnel it) was that I wouldn't get a long with my companions.  The Lord definitely blessed me with an amazing companion!  She puts up with me and makes life so much easier.  I only have 10 minutes left so I'm going to type extremely fast.  DObRE!
Well, an amazing week.  Last Tuesday Elder Bednar spoke to us!  It was the most wonderful talk ever.  He talked about feeling the influence and understading the Holy Ghost.  It was simple.  His instructions were this:  Be a good boy, be a good girl, keep the commandments, and the Lord will work through you.  If you can find it, read it.  Wednesday we had more Russian, Ukrainian, and Armeanian Missionaries come!  I LOVE THEM.  Everyone is a convert to the church.  (10 years are less)  There are 7 (5 sisters & 2 elders).  One Elder will be going with us to Kyiv!  Oh, Kyiv has some amazing dress ties.  Every missionary and teacher from Kyiv wears the most beautiful ties I have ever seen.  
The other Elder just got Quarintined.  He has the flu.  So sad.  BUT, he studied at the Moscow Conservatory of Music - and is a renowned concert pianist.  They all have amazing sense of humors and they are super patient with my efforts to speak to them!  I occassionaly say some pretty crazy things - then we just laugh like crazy.  Oh, I gave my first talk in Ukrainian on Sunday.  Pretty exciting.   I'm in charge of the music in the branch, go figure.  It's nice, I get to force all of our new elders into singing and playing.  (Although I don't have to force anyone, everyone here wants to particpate and do everything!) 

Pres. Monson's daugther was here Sunday.  I shook her hand!  She told us some funny stories!

I have some amazing experience in the RC (people call in for free Book of Mormons or DVDs.)  I wish I had time to tell you about them.  My district is amazing.  We are having way too much fun.  Ukrainian is fun.  We are being blessed way beyond our means.  Although, I still have a lot of work left to do.

LOVE YOU LOVE YOU ALL!

Thanks for your support!

Love.

CeCTPA MURPHY!

Sandra & Will,
Thanks so much for the package...TOO MUCH FOOD.  I shared half of it with my district so, plenty of it has been taken care of.  Did I tell you I wanted popcorn? THE BEST!  Thanks!  I am healthy as oppossed to half of the MTC.  Um, I do eat a lot!  The food is okay and there is always a selection.  Don't worry, I'm not gaining weight yet!  You seriously need to try this schedule.  It's amazing how much you can do in one day.  I'm also so alert.  Try it for a week.  I DARE YOU!  
I'm going to judge Will, that's what sister-in-laws are for.  I could care less if he was a calligrapher his handwriting is still disgusting.  JUST KIDDING.  Will, I praise you everytime I talk about you.  

Love you both!

CeCTPA

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Amy's latest letter

A short email to her sister followed by the longer one to everyone:
The Lord will heal us in our infirmities!
So, I like what you said, it's even more June now.  Indeed.  I love it
This is just my first e-mail today.  We are going to divide it.  So let me tell you first.  I'm am going to use the Lord's time wisely.  We have four weeks left (I'll get into that into my next e-mail) and Have a lot more work to do.  We have a new group of 80 missionaries all learning Russian and we'll be getting Native Ukrainians who will be trained in 4 weeks (since they already know the language).  So, we will all leave about the same time but, all of us will be on different flights since we'll be going to different places.  You should find some of the prophecies about this mission!  Crazy stuff!  This is really where we will Gather Israel.  By the way, I've heard that they moved the temple dedication back.  Do you think that if I am the best I can be and really learn the language, I can speed the process along?  Or is there more at stake than missionary work?  
So, this is the hardest thing I've ever done!  I'm doing ok.  I could be much better though.  It's hard to work w/ 2 other companions.  We all have different strengths, different ideas of work, of plans, and of what we need to do.  And one of us isn't even learning Ukrainian.  I will not be successful if I don't love them and see the necessity of change.
So, I'm only going to write one big e-mail.  I'm going to be bold too.  Good!
Sisters leave a lot of stuff, so I'm going to send you some crazy stuff I found but, it'll be fun!

Also, I found a German MTC workbook.  Some of it has been used but, wouldn't you like to look at it?  What do you think?  Also I found some Spanish dictionaries and another spanish MTC book.  Does  you or Will want that?  I love the give away box.  We have a nice collection of shampoo, conditioner, soap, and BUBBLES!  (R HE ZHAU)  (I don't the english version of the cyricllic alphabet.  It doesn't quite work.)  Well, you asked when we get mail.  2 x a day: Lunch & Dinner (ObID i  BECHIPR).  I'll save the more exciting stuff for the other letter.  

Love you strongly (I'll explain more of this later!)

CECTPA  M.

This is the longer email she referred to above:

DObPE DENb!   Moi  CHEDOVY CIM'R

I wish I could write to you all today ALe (but,)  I didn't use my time productively today.  SO, I'm going to type as fast as I can. Please (BUDLACKA)  excuse (VUBAhaTU)  my random thoughts and my attempt to write amazing Ukrainian words (CLOBO) using the English alphabet.  I would write to you all in Ukrainian, but that would take me15 months and, I've still got a lot (bAHATO) to learn. 
Um...weeks are like roller coasters.  You love every minute except for the minutes you want to get off.  BUT, Missions are way better than roller coasters...
This week my companion got sick.  She developed bronchitis, but it wasn't the swine flu!  YAY!  Seriously crazy infulenza.  The MTC was crazy this past week.  It was so packed, but missionaries are finally leaving and I'm so excited for all the good they will be doing.  
Oh, my companion, so of course we all had symptoms (it's all psychological.) But, she woke up Saturday and just felt terrible so, we had to go to the BYU health clinic  (MTC's hc is closed on Sat.) and she received three perscriptions and sleep orders.  So, that's what we did.  I absolutely love my companion and I really did enjoy the opportunity to serve her.  NO LIE!  PLUS, I actually got to get organized and review this crazy wonderful language while she slept.  Our teacher made her promise that she would courageously brave her illness and be in class on Monday.  Of course we were.  Our other poor elders (remeber Job?) - Elder Behunnan has had a rough recovery from his surgery and also missed class on Tues - Saturday.  That pulled out a companion - (stay together right).  Needless to say this little Ukrainian District has got to do a lot of work the next four weeks.  FOUR WEEKS.  Can you believe it?  July 6 is when we leave.  I know to you that seems like a long time.  BUT it isn't.  These weeks fly by so fast I'm going crazy thinking about being in Ukraine.  
The good news:
We received about 90 new missionaries last week.  They are wonderful.  Sacrament meeting was just fabulous!  Bad news: they are all learning Russian.  THE GOOD NEWS:  one of them is also from Arkansas!  He's great!  THE BETTER NEWS:  Late last night we had two sisters arrive into our room.  They are from Russia and spend the next 4 weeks with us.  They are beautiful sisters!  They get to go to the temple for their first time Thurs. and have amazing experiences here!!  THE BEST NEWS: we get 3 sisters from Ukraine tomorrow (their plane got delayed in Kyiv) and two elders!!!  Fabulous.  The sisters are going to be my best friends!  (next to my current companions.)  As a trio we are finally getting a long great.  I had a little breakdown earlier this week.  But, I learned something: It's great to work hard and serve the Lord.  That's why I am here.  But, I also need to be Christlike.  I had to learn that being Christlike might take me away from working as hard as I want but that's what Christ did.  He gave us all our agency and he served others and His whole entire life...
I'd say more but, I have 25 seconds
I LOVE YOU!!
BE THE BEST!!
I'll do my best!

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

Funny Email about her district and the Swine Flu. Enjoy!

Hello my magical CIM'R...(almost...I cannot find the cyrillic alphabet...so for now, that will have to do.)

What an amazing week this has been.  So, I'm not sure if I told you that last week we became a trio and that it was tough.  Well, we had a companionship inventory and have had the best week ever.  This week has been by far the best week.  I'll start with Wednesday: Our Teaching Appointment (all in Ukrainian) was not that bad!  Well, it won't fly in Ukraine, but for the first time...sure I'll boast in what the Lord has been blessing me with!  Things are going great.  I definitely need to work harder.  I want to be exhausted every evening.  I have 36 days before I leave the country!! HOW EXCITING!

So, we have a lot more to learn.  This week we are meeting someone at a store and purchasing a few items.  Then we share a gospel message and go back later and teach for another 35 mintues.  What fun, but, that's tomorrow.  So, we've got a lot to do!

I want to tell you a little bit about my District now!  They are amazing.  Have you seen pictures yet?

I'll start with Elder Hill, he just got released from being the District Leader.  He is from Arizona and is quite accomplished.  He plans on going to Law school after his mission.  He has worked as a graphics artists and designed a pretty awesome label for a salsa company!  He's had some crazy work experience that I won't bother with.  He also play violin.  We are going to do some sort of musical entertainment in a week or so if we can find time to practice (5 minutes before lunch or dinner probably.  We are experts at completing a meal in less than 20 minutes! I know that's nothing but, we're working on it)  Our teacher calls him donkey - he loves to talk and has a great attitude.  He has great work ethic and is working hard!

Elder Behunan...we call him Job.  He has had illness after disease and is having a pretty bizzare surgery today.  The health clinic is where he spends all of his free time!  We are hoping this is the last of it, unless the dreaded swine flu strikes our branch.  (I"ll talk more about this later).  He is our new District Leader and he is from Utah.  He is very humble and has been blessed despite his trials.  He's learning fast!

Elder Penrose is awesome.  At first he seems very quite, but he isn't.  He has a very interesting life story and has overcome many trials!  I'm amazed at his patience.  It seems like he is having the hardest time learning the language but he works and doesn't give up.  He fasts at least once a week and has strong faith that he'll get it.  But, he has a lot of support back home (he's moved a lot as well: Chicago, Utah, and some Island where his mom is currently in medical school).
The Elders each get a package of goodies a week, Elder Penrose, though, almost one a day.  They share!

My amazing companion is Sister Howell.  We have been learning a lot from each other.  I'm learning how to listen!!  We are both learning how to work - effectively!  I'd tell you more but there just isn't words to express how much fun we have together.

Our new companion is Sister Mitchell.  She isn't in our district - she is learning Russian down the hall.  She has a great attitude.  With her I've learned to wake up every morning and say:  I'm so excited...do you know what today is?  IT's Monday - we have gym...It's tuesday - we are going to the temple...It's Wednesday - we have TA...it's Thursday - the best day of the week: WE HAVE SERVICE!!l....It's Friday - um...hmm...We HAVE GYM (we have gym every day but Tues. and Sun.  But, some days it is just more exciting!).   IT's Saturday - we have 4 hours of MDT!!    It's Sunday - totally the best day of the week - Sacrament !! 

Well, Today we had a great morning in the temple!  We were able to get there earlier enough to do init.  as well!  What fun!!

So, you know how I love PIGS a whole lot!  Well, they have come to the MTC in enormous numbers!  It's called the Swine flu.  I belive it's been a big deal around the world well, now it's a big deal in the MTC.  We are not allowed to shake hands (haven't been since like the 2nd week here).  We were safe until last week when the Influenza just started spreading like crazy.  Many missionaries are quarantined and no one is leaving this week!  It's going to be a mess today and tomorrow when all the new missionaries arrive.  Also, families are not allowed to bring their missionaries into the MTC and if the missionary is sick the mission is postponed.  It's so fun here.  We had to go to the health clinic and it was packed.  I hope I don't get sick.  Everytime someone coughs we laugh.  I'm going to eat an orange every meal...NO FLU FOR ME!  I hope.  
Other exciting things...it's JUNE!!  YAY!  That also means we will have the pleasure of listening to many Apostles and Prophets!!!  I'll let you know as the days come!

Well, I only have a few more minutes, but, I love you all.  I hope this e-mail helped with getting to know a few of those I serve with.  There are amazing missionaries here...and some not so amazing.

Hmm,  I'll tell you about the RC yesterday.  First call was awful...he was a very nice man, but, he liked to argue and might just be a little confused.  So, after that long and draining call I spoke to an amazing girl.  I'm so excited for her!  Well, time is draining.  I love you!  I hope everyone is doing well.

Make sure you send this to everyone please Sandy!

Sandra, you are a wonderful wife!

the best sister!

LOVE YOU ALL!!

Amy's Email to the Thompsons






I got your email!
I'm so glad!  YAY!!  My life is complete now.It's a beautiful day in Provo!  How is the rest of the World?   Love to Kevin and Joyce both.  I would not have know how to fix it so thank goodness for them both!  So, grandma grandpa, I heard peaches died.  I'm so sorry.  I love you!  Isn't the gospel great though!  We know that no matter what we are going through we can still find happiness thanks to Christ!  I absolutely love you, my entire family.  Families are the best and I'm so glad we can be together for eternity.  This week we lost all of the Russians and the rest of our group, so it's been crazy here.  But, they were ready to begin teaching.  
(Amy's District)

I have a district of 5.  It's pretty small.  3 Elders (male missionaries) my companion and me.  We are the only 5 learning Ukrainian and we were surrounded by a whole lot of Russian speaking and learning missionaries.  IT was great.  We could actually understand a lot of what the Russians were saying.   So, today was kind of lonely.  Yesterday was kind of lonely too.  The hallways in our Russian floor building are quiet.  Gym was rather dull, and our special spot in the cafeteria is always empty.  BUT, I didn't come on my mission to make friends.  I came to serve the Lord.  Although, it was helpful to have their support and of course we practiced with the Ukrainians.  Now we are the old group.  We are preparing to double the branch next week with 80 new missionaries though.  
I'm going to try speaking my language more.  100% by next week?  We shall see.  Of course it will be awful and I'll have to live with my dictionary (I pretty much already do.) The language is very difficult but, I'm loving the experience.  I know that Lord is blessing me!  But, I am excited about this opportunity and I have wonderful teachers. 
I think they moved us up a week and we might be leaving July 7.  I'm excited about that.  I'm always trying to remember who I serve, and How wonderful it is to serve Him!  I love 3 Nephi chapter 13 - so that is my goal - keep focused on Him and our purpose as missionaries.  Not only invite others to Christ but keep coming Closer to Him as well.  I want my heart and eye to reflect!  

We got a new companion.  That's been hard.  She is a solo sister going to Russia.  She was with the other Engilsh - Russian sisters, but we don't have anymore Russian sisters.  So she moved in with us and I've had to get used to that.  It's hard.  I was trying to be awesomely nice to her and she practically despised us because we are speaking Ukrainian, so I totally wasn't happy for a day.  Oh, well.  We'll learn to live with each other! I love keeping my schedule.  Why do we plan if we aren't going to follow it?  But, I suppose their are other things that are more important.  I think I'm to rigid.  I know I should loosen up a little bit and enjoy life a little bit more (Any advice would be great).  BUT, I also am learning a language in 3 months.  This is going to be an extremely hard week for us.  TOMORROW, we teach completely in Ukrainian.  It's going to be a crazy crazy experience and tough...
We are surrounded by the mountains out here.  They are beautiful!  
Tell everyone hello.  Things are wonderful.  Read 3 nephi 13.  That's what we all need to do:  Keep an eye single to His glory!  Come closer to Christ always!  Reflecft His light.
 LOVE YOU ALL!!

You are the best!!!
Have a happy day!
Love CECTPA MURPHY!